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More
Than A Man

The liberated lover

Many men work - but they don't really feel alive.
They give their best at work, in relationships, in the family - and still feel that something is missing. Depth. The desire. The connection.

Do you long for more closeness, intimacy and connection?
Do you want not only better, but also more satisfying sex?
You want a satisfied and well fucked woman by your side?
Are you ready to rediscover your sexual diversity in a holistic way?

Then we would like to welcome you to:

More Than A Man -
The Liberated Lover

This training is not a guide to techniques - it is an invitation to feel yourself again. Only those who feel themselves can really feel the other person. Only those who are connected with themselves can give closeness that touches. This changes everything - not just in bed, but in life as a whole. Relationships become more genuine. Encounters become deeper. Men find their way back to their center - to a power that is both silent and tangibly strong

"MORE THAN A MAN - THE LIBERATED LOVER“ is an invitation to rediscover yourself - beyond roles, expectations and patterns. It is a path to your authentic masculine vitality.

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"MORE THAN A MAN - THE LIBERATED LOVER“ is the only German-language online training that combines customized video training in 27 video units with life coaching and transformative group processes. 

3 months

Start on January 11, 2026

Free Q&A info zoom call for all interested and perhaps still hesitant men with Iva and the entire team on Wednesday, January 07, 2026 at 7 pm - be there!

A new module is activated every Sunday.

Live Wednesdays from 19-21 hrs:

Wed 14.01.

Warm Welcome

Iva

Wed 21.01.

Guest Lecturer

Didi

Wed 28.01.

Q&A

Iva

Wed 04.02.

Men Circle

Sebastian

Wed 11.02.

Q&A

Iva

Wed 18.02.

Guest Lecturer

Matt

Wed 25.02.

Q&A

Iva

Wed 04.03.

Men Circle

Sebastian

Wed 11.03.

Q&A

Iva

Wed 18.03.

Guest Lecturer

Felix

Wed 25.03.

Closing Circle

Iva

Wed 15.04.

Last Check In

Iva

21.-22.03.

Optional retreat near Berlin with Iva & Felix

It's best to keep the date free - experience shows that everyone wants to be there in the end. Please note: the price for the retreat is not included.

Become a lover who doesn't impress, but touches.

The masterclass for men who want more

In this three-month masterclass, you will embark on a journey to your most powerful, sensual and clear version as a man - in bed, in life, in your relationships.

This masterclass will help you do just that:

your love life and your view of Sexuality to a new level to bring

Having a satisfied woman by your side

to know what you want and how to get it

ignite new energy that affects all areas of life

uninhibited, lustful, unstoppable and to be adventurous

have more enthusiasm, curiosity and self-confidence during sex

Courage, clarity & the right inner attitude for mind blowing sex

To be a lover who doesn't perform, but really feels

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In our culture, men are often taught: Strength means control, performance, perseverance. Many take on this role and master professional and family expectations with impressive reliability. But behind this competence, something precious can be lost: the connection to oneself - to one's own physicality, to one's own softness, to one's own emotional world.

I see men who function. Who do what is expected of them and are left with an inner feeling of emptiness. They feel that something is missing - depth, desire, aliveness, connection. Some extinguish their pain with work, alcohol, distraction or pornography; others withdraw, not knowing how to allow closeness. And often they don't even know that they are suffering because there was no one to show them that softness is not a flaw, that vulnerability is not weakness.

This is exactly where my online training comes in. It is not a guide to perfect techniques or a promise of quick success. It is an invitation: to get back into your own body, to learn to feel again and to cultivate your own presence - without pressure, without the need to perform.

Sexuality and touch are less technical skills than a language of feeling. Only those who are aware of themselves can really feel the other person. Only those who know and respect their own boundaries can respect the boundaries of others. In my training, we uncover this foundation: breath, body awareness, presence. Step by step, an inner space is created in which trust and genuine contact skills grow.

The participants„ reports are touching: “I can feel myself for the first time in my life.„ “I see my wife completely differently now.„ Partners report that their husbands “touch differently" - not because they have learned new techniques, but because something has changed inside them: more presence, more calm, more softness. This change has an effect far beyond the bedroom: men speak differently, act differently, love differently.

What women often want is not perfection, but presence. A man who is really there - in the body, in the breath, in the now. Someone who can remain emotional, who holds space, who doesn't run away when things get deep. Presence is not a technique, it is the result of a process: when a man learns to receive again and not just perform.

The work is not an intellectual course, but an embodied path. It requires courage, a willingness to be vulnerable and a desire for new experiences. And it offers something fundamental: the opportunity to live from a new inner clarity - in relationships, with children, in the world.

When men regain access to their emotional world, physicality and presence, it is not only their lives that change. It changes the way we live together - in partnerships, families and communities. That is the power of this work: it is personal and at the same time deeply social.

Iva Samina

Book author, somatic sexological coach and sexological bodyworker Iva Samina accompanies men on the path to more freedom, self-confidence and fulfillment in their sexuality.

With her deep knowledge of female desire and emotional intimacy, she shows what really touches women - and what makes a man a passionate, confident and present lover. It is not perfection that is required, but authenticity, liveliness and the ability to enjoy with an open heart - in bed and in life.

Iva draws on many years of experience with thousands of customers.

More Than A Man

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“MORE THAN A MAN - THE LIBERATED LOVER“  is an online training.

You will receive 27 video instructions with clear accompanying material.

Week after week we guide you in a Detailed training through all the necessary steps to build a foundation on which you can build your entire life can build. 

The video course consists of 12 modules. 
In three months, the sexual foundations for a ecstatic (love) life mediated:

Reconnection Stress management Self-love Intention Movement Breathing Focus Anatomy Energy Mindfulness Bodywork

Every other week there is a 90-minute live Q&A session with Iva personally. Here you have the opportunity to share your experiences and ask in-depth questions. 

Once a month, you can look forward to a two-hour men's circle with Sebastian, in which you can among men about the shared challenges, experiences and solutions. Motivation and development progress increase enormously when you are aiming for the same goal with like-minded people in the same boat. 

The training is rounded off once a month by a Guest lecturers, which will give you 120 minutes of further practical tools for your sexual potential to the hand.

You can expect:

two years' access to the online material. You can resume the course at any time, repeat it and complete it at your own pace, step by step, as it feels right for you.

Module 1

The inner observer

Module 1

Do you still have to get it for her, or are you already in love? Wanting to be effective is an obstacle when it comes to the most emotional thing in the world.So let's take a look together at where you stand in terms of sexual contact

Module 2

Reactivation of desire

Module 2

Are you aware that your pleasure belongs to you and is not dependent on the outside world? An intense, pleasurable body experience makes your whole life hotter. So become a sensual expert for yourself here.

Module 3

Relationship with your own penis

Module 3

The best piece is often rigid with fear and stress due to pornographic ideals, self-criticism and performance thinking. Women sense subtle differences and prefer a soft penis that vibrates with life. Make it the celebrated organ of love.

Module 4

Pressure to perform
Adé

Module 4

The big fucker and stallion gives his willing mare one heavenly orgasm after another. This kind of head cinema creates fear of failure and alienates both partners from each other. Instead, be happy and learn unintentional ecstasy.

Module 5

The activated basin

Module 5

Standard: Pushing, out and in. Is that all there is to it? There's more! The vagina is a 360-degree panorama full of erogenous zones. So swing your hips for multidimensional stimulation!

Module 6

Breathing control unit

Module 6

Breathing deeply and consciously - this is the only way you can surrender to the moment and make love with your partner. Learn the excited and relaxed breathing technique here.

Module 7

Female anatomy

Module 7

Vaginal nerve endings in Sleeping Beauty slumber and armies of pleasure points in the female abdomen. Find out everything you need to know as Prince Charming here.

Module 8

Basin
floor

Module 8

Whether flaccid or tense - the condition of your roots determines how energy flows into your body. In order to enjoy a dreamlike and long-lasting pleasure rush, make the inside of your pelvis accessible.

Module 9

Awakening your inner lover

Module 9

Are you still cramping or are you already living? Learned attitudes such as fear or guilt close off inner spaces of lust and love. So learn to allow yourself to be ashamed of pleasure and to embrace what you like.

Module 10

6 pillars for a nourishing sexuality

Module 10

Is your goal getting in the way of sex? If your partner doesn't feel seen and connected to you during lovemaking, you won't produce any satisfaction. Here you get the complete basis for mutually fulfilling sex.

Module 11

Male and female principle

Module 11

There is a play of forces to be discovered not only in the Mystery Woman, but also in you. You cannot control and master all of them. But if you can creatively navigate unknown waters, you are her “Oh captain, my captain”.

Module 12

Happy
End

Module 12

You have pushed boundaries, dived deep and gone where thousands of other men have not gone before you. Congratulations! Let us celebrate you - let us take another look at you!

Guest contributors

Dietmar Liebold

Dietmar Liebold is co-director of the Bodywork Center in Zurich.

He leads courses on tantric massage, sexological bodywork, sexological body therapy and somatic sexual counseling.

In his practice, he uses touch, breathing, movement and communication to help people connect more strongly with themselves and their bodies.

Find out more about Didi here

Felix Falkenhahn

Felix Falkenhahn has been researching the human body and the natural principles of healing for 25 years. He works as a non-medical practitioner, body and Gestalt therapist, coach and teacher in the fields of breath and body awareness, relationships and men's work.

A main focus is the conscious activation of our inherent visionary body intelligence and the dancer within us, which allows us to live our wildest and most beautiful qualities and dreams.

Find out more about Felix here

Sebastian hofer

Sebastian Hofer is a non-medical practitioner for psychotherapy and works in a body-oriented and trauma-sensitive manner based on the established humanistic and client-centered methods of Gestalt Therapy & Somatic Experiencing®. In addition, he draws on years of therapeutic self-experience, including with expanded states of consciousness (such as Holotropic Breathwork or Vipassana meditation) and all kinds of movement practices, all of which he incorporates into his work.

Sebastian offers men in various formats the opportunity to take off their masks and armor and thus enter into a non-competitive, nurturing and trusting connection with themselves and others.

Find out more about Sebastian here

Matthias Schwenteck

Matthias Schwenteck is trained in Sacred Sexuality and Tantra and has been working with various healing methods as well as counseling, guided meditation and bodywork for over 20 years. His sessions and teachings are based on trauma research and neurophysiology.

Matthias developed the "Somatic consent engagement system" in 2019 and dedicates his life to guiding thousands of people through these evolutionary times.

He does this in various formats: from training courses for teachers and practitioners. Right through to workshops for couples and individual sessions.

Find out more about Matt here

Book a course now

Early bird until December 6: €699 
Late bird until January 4: €749
Regular price from January 5: $799

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Mini course

€ 499,-

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With the mini course you get all 27 video tutorials with hand outs to get started right away. You can start at any time and get all the tools and information you need. The mini course is for men with discipline and stamina who can stick with it on their own and for those who need to be more flexible.

Live coaching, Men Circle and guest contributions are not included.

You can upgrade to the coaching course at any time by paying the corresponding surcharge if you need more motivation and support or if something has changed in your life situation. Simply send us an email and your previous purchase will be offset against the price. You can then join us at the start of the next round.

Iva's Background

Her story is lively, unconventional and characterized by depth and change. As a very young mother of three, she has lived in a wide variety of life models, relationships and places - characterized by challenges, but also by a deep longing for freedom, truthfulness and connection.These experiences have awakened in her a burning passion for existential questions:

What is possible?
Where do self-determination and freedom really begin?
What is sexuality?

Iva's path is characterized by curiosity, courage and a desire to explore. She does not think in categories, but moves freely between worlds. Her openness and diversity make her a warm-hearted and powerful companion for people in search of more vitality, clarity and self-confidence.
She draws her knowledge from Taoist philosophy, yoga, tantra, sexological bodywork, kink, systemic coaching and integrative therapy.
For over ten years, she has been helping people to feel themselves anew, to untangle old patterns and to find their very own expression of strength, intimacy and self-determination.

“In my previous life, there was this moment of clarity - I felt deep inside me: I can't go on like this. I was functioning, but I wasn't really living.”

“Something inside me longed for depth, for authenticity, for myself. On my way back to myself, I realized how central my sensuality and sexuality are to my sense of freedom, vitality and fulfillment. This realization was no coincidence, but a gift - a call that I could no longer ignore.

Today, it is my heartfelt desire to pass on precisely this trust: in my own body, in my own truth, in what is possible in relationship. To shine - from the depths. And to remind others that they too can shine. That's what I'm going for.“

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Can I also do the course if I am single?

You can of course also do the course as a single person. Many men reported greater self-confidence, more self-acceptance and self-love as well as a more fulfilling life experience. "More than a man" is a relationship booster and has a positive effect on all kinds of relationships. Be it the relationship with yourself, nature, your fellow human beings or your partner. Every relationship will benefit from your personal journey and development and become more harmonious and intense. And who knows, maybe you won't be single for long after this course... 😉

How will the course affect my sex life?

Your sex life will be transformed into a pleasure-filled adventure with intense moments of encounter. You will be more present, more ecstatic and more powerful. You will develop a completely new perspective on lovemaking and have a satisfied woman by your side. Most course participants report an increased connection to themselves and the feeling of "finally having arrived at themselves again".

What if I can't be there for a live call?

If you miss a live call, that's no problem. Every call is recorded and made available to you afterwards. You can repeat the call at any time and contact the Telegram group or your coaches by email if you have any questions. We will always help you.

Why does one course cost more?

With the mini course you get all 27 video tutorials with hand outs to get started right away. The Maxi course for €699 also includes live coaching and men's circle sessions. There are also live contributions from guest instructors and a Telegram group where you can exchange ideas, inspiration and motivation with other men. The shared group experience has been very transformative for many of our participants. A safe place where they could communicate and release their worries, fears and experiences. Together, they were inspired, motivated and found new ways to step further into their power.

What is the advantage of booking the course for €699?

The maxi course for 699€ offers you the personal exchange with other men and coaches. You will not have the feeling of being alone on your path, but will always feel connected and supported by the group. For our participants it is motivating, meaningful and transformative. They have a greater commitment and more discipline. In fact, for many men, sharing a safe space with other men on a regular basis, showing themselves in all their vulnerability and being seen is one of the best experiences. It is a very powerful space. The guest lecturers also find it a great enrichment. If you are unsure, you can also contact Iva at any time.

Will my sexuality change for the better?

Take a look at our testimonials. The program was life-changing for them! What many people don't know. A fulfilled sexuality is a cornerstone for a joyful life. The participants not only changed their love life positively, but also many other areas of their lives. Because everything in life is about relationships and these are intensified. In the end, however, it is always your own intention and responsibility to get involved in the course and allow yourself to be transformed. The more you put in, the more you get out.

Because you want more. More passion, more pleasure, more real connections - for you and your partner. You will understand that your sexuality is not an extra. It is your expression. Your power. Your truth.

Ready to start your journey as a Liberated Lover?

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